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[Boye]

Salaam to all
There's a particular sister on the Legon campus that I admire so much, she is very religious, beautiful, shy just to mention but a few. In fact, she has all the qualities that Islam teaches us to look for in selecting a marriage partner. Unfortunately, I shy n respect her so much that I've not been able to tell her my feelings even though there's some kind of rapport between us. I also want to do things in the Islamic way, I'm confused about this. Could you please tell me what to do. Please don't send bulky messages since they make reading boring.   

[salama]

Salam Brother,

I think the first thing you should do before taken any action, is to pray

Istikhar with faith and ask for guidance, because I think you need to be sure about your fillings and do the right thing in an islamic way.

Mariage is very important in Islam , we should therefore try to choose a good patner, a good mother or father for our children to come inshaAllah.
 From what you said about the girl she seems to be a good muslimah,and I encourage you if so to go ahead if your intentions are really islamic and mariage.

You can talk to her in the presence of a muharram,or a third person, let things be clear between you from the beginning.
If you can't talk to her, you can send someone to her, your friend or hers .Someone you thrust.

But then seek for guidance from Allah that is the most important thing, and He will guide you towards the best for you InsahAllah.

May Allah guide us and help all muslims looking for a partner or means to marry.
Amen

 

[Boye]

Amen
Thanks very much Sis. Salama for your piece of advice. I hope things will go on well Insha Allah, I'll give you the feedback. Salaam

[qwickmalik]

salam,

well said sis Salama, there's nothing more i can add.

may Allah unite the two of you if you are best for each other in this world and in the next.